How To stop the soul search.

Growing up in a self-deported family is harder than you would imagine.....
Deported because nuclear family gone rogue ....
It's fun and frolic on the outside but deep down you would still be searching for the soul that's as deformed as yours....
Well no-one could come from that long line of lunatics....
The search stops when you realise ...no external force could turn your life upside down unless someone makes you fall on your back ...and you are not physics to follow all the laws...
And It's Okie if your past looks like a four year old artistic paint on the wall ...don't cry over ......like it's diamonds...
And it's absolutely Okie if you still stand in a que with a plate and a glass ... As long as it's not prison and you are not in for murder (  that would be cool though)....
About things that are yet to come ....Unless you are that type of a person who wakes up at the first beat of the first alarm in the morning, don't keep planning your future.... most of all,
Stop worrying about what people would say or think or do or crap ..... Unless of course they bring a gold coffin to your funeral party .... then yeah you should probably be nice to them ....
Learn to be with people who would actually put some effort to activate the two facial muscles (orbicularis oculi and oris) to smile .... those muscle activated smiles are called genuine smile ...rest are just social smile meaning FAKE ....
Yeah only when you stop the search outside and look inside of you .... you would  come up with all these kinds of crazy stuff  .

Be crazy. Be independent. Be detached. Be you.
Because the rest is just social.
Susshibelle

Day and night wer it all started

Everyday brings new challenges they say....
I don't see it ...
Every day I wake up in the same bed ....
Every night I bury myself in the same pillow...
I'm where I'm since it all started.....
Everything grew up with me ....
Some grew so close to me....
Some grew apart ....
Well, that's life .....
I can accept that ..... I can accept being static in the same place till I'm dead enough to be moved ....
But I can't live upto the expectation of what everyone wants....
That's not about living .....
Earth doesn't change its orbit to bring about the next day.....
We should be able revolve around the things that makes us stronger and more powerful towards life..... That's all about it .....
I'm ready for a change anytime.... But as long it is my decision be it wise,be it the dumb-ass-sitting-around-corner-of-bed-crying decision, it will  be my crazy ass decision.... for a change.
I live every day with a smile that next day it would get more weirder.....
That's it !!!! And that makes me more happy !!

A start to where it all started ....
Sussh

The pain of smiling .....

The day when you have to walk around like nothing happened in your life that is so painful to swallow but you smile anyway with a deep eye and a red cheek ...
When every perception of pain is stimulated ... but all the tear left in you is swallowed back and runs straight to your heart like a hundred syringe piercing all the muscle in it, just so, to show how much alive you are.......
I don't know which is more painful , the stab to  your heart or the cry behind your laughter .....
Sometimes, it's that you have to live with everything that has happened and you still have to continue, to go back being who you were..... that is what is more painful.... The ache behind your every smile ..... The regret behind your every success..... The sink behind your every jump of excitement......
Sometimes It's hard to walk over .... unbearable  to go through .....  to let go.......is not the answer ......    
Some pain is impossible to get over ....
Some pain we have to live with ....

Remember there is always a pain behind every smile ....
Sussh

When you don't loose someone close ...

It's pulling your heart alive ....When you loose someone very close to your heart....
I'm sorry I don't know how that feels....
I have never been to death house ... funeral or the ceremony .....
I felt bad for my granddad..... felt BAD ...that's it ....
But today ,  I just heard someone (very close to my heart) who lost their hero of their life.... and that pulled my heart out.....
That voice just ripped my heart out without any  anaesthesia .....I was awake and it pained...
We try our best in this shitty life to spend our time with the ones  We love ... We like ... our friends ..... our colleagues....
Yet somehow ......even when there are so many people to move away from us dead physically .......
It's just so painful to let go of the ones we love sooooooo much to heaven ......
This world is cruel to take away the ones who deserves to spend their rest of the life with us instead in  heaven ......
That's not right .....
Right ?????
I don't know if they would be happier there ....
This whole  being alive thing is just too complicated ......
Why are we born .....
Why should we go just like that .....
When nothing is enough for anyone alive ...taking them away is just cruel .....
Somehow looking through all the heart pain someone close to you ....is just fibrillating......

I thought world is cruel.....
But it looks like
God is cruel.....
Unfair feeling....

Xoxo
Consider being alive
Sussh

When it's you all alone ?

Surrounded with such beautiful people yet you have to live each second like a war !  

Every soul you see has a beautiful soul ! 

It's just that  it takes a heart to see it ..... !

My everyday travel diary says so ..... "When you put in everyone's shoes you would know"......, is such a perfect saying ... But hey! Who has time for that ! 

Yet we have time to criticise, gossip, judge, and what not ! 

When you actually observe each person struggling a day to live .....

An old lady pushing through the crowded bus because she has to reach home with her earnings safe with all the energy left to push you !

That girl who is fighting to have a seat Bcoz she had the worse cramps ever ....

That lil boy who wants to reach front to just look at his crush .....

And of course that irritating man who keeps X-Ray'ing you is MAYBE looking for that dress you are wearing ! Just to buy his Valentine because it's FEBRARY !!!! (We could always use a glare once in awhile right !!!!) 

Yeah aged people drink .... And would obviously travel with you, standing just so close to you, because it is so crowded in that bus ! ..... Come on he has seen all the depression, all the failures, almost all the things you are going through in life .... Give him a break ! He just needs to get home ..... He at least takes an effort to reach home ! 

Oh and by the way I mean all these things, not in a sarcastic way ! 

Give every soul a chance ! 

You can judge all you want! 

But give them a chance to reach where they want to before you speak a word !

Nooone is living your life !

They have their own ! 

Coming to peace 

Sussh