Monday, November 19, 2018

Whats work if its not about money?

Struggling through skirts and shorts to pants and suit, we did finally reach a stage in our life where our name could precede with our talent. 

Instead we have run so far with our heads down in setting up alarm to wake up and a reminder to sleep,
We have perfected our life into a schedule, 
Even a time machine would be disappointed to go back.

We have forgotten to set aside tiny little hours of the day for ourselves just so we could imprison ourself to a tiny space, conceptualising everything and everyone is at our arms end.
Infact, the truth is someone sitting beside you, feel a lot afar because you couldn't take your eyes of me ( duh! your mobile screen 😋) 
Finally being in a place to compose your talent and to acknowledge them shouldn't be such a struggle. 
Because it's our job to see noobody is felt, not left, alone,
And not everybody has to go to Howard for superpowers. They are just born with them. Yet, We just choose to stay in our bubble.
Who knew he could win your heart with a smile; just like how she could talk so fearlessly at the same time.
If she could make THE loudest whistle, he could pout into a perfect picture.
She breaks all stereotype to be the fastest racer and so, he brings you the most delicious meal on table. 
That special talent/ that superpower is there, amongst us, every individual will surprise you, might that be words, action, or as simple as a soft look and smile on their face. It shouldn't be so hard to get to know them.
Somewhere down the road, we forgot to appreciate ourself, the person right next to us, that person who puts an effort to knows us more. 
So tell me, working through bottoms up for higher denomination on a piece of paper...
Let's you lick the Liberty Bell??
Crash ghost parties at St.Cathedral's
Or better yet a dream wedding in the white marble house of india???
Nope.
And, yes, I will tell you 
"What is work if it's not about money"
its all the craziest things you get to do with people right beside you,
It's how much you tend to miss everyday to bring happiness inside yourself and your life.
 
Of all the things 
It's a constant reminder that even on a worst day, there will always be something along the way with brighter joy.

Its about time
Sussh

Sunday, January 28, 2018

Are you done with your grieving?


An apology for a blog ....

That has nothing to do with what i know  ....

Because i have no idea how to grieve...

What is grieving??.... 

do you attend a funeral and start crying??

Is that it????

Im sorry i have never done that...

Not the crying part.....

but the funeral part ...

Because i have attended one funeral in 27years.... and just once....

and im so and bloody so old .... it was my grandmother’s when i was 8years old

How sorry I’ am to not have cried ..... i was too young even to be fine with that ...

That woman who taught me something i will never stop doing.... 

she once told me “never talk to yourself, im there if you need someone to talk to” 

Yes ....

thats all I remember of that lady who took me up, just after i was born ..... 

Nevertheless,....

’after that unfortunate fate of mine i have never attended one more funeral .....

Should you be attending funerals to know how to learn to cry exactly after you loose something precious in your life ????

Is that what life teaches you after all??? Death?????

What if you want to live without having any such experience .....

and one fine day you find out ....

After you pushed everyone out of your life ....

Just EVERYONE....

Out of grieving......

Then ....:

You find you did push everyone out of grieve.... and you think they would ofcourse understand????

Jokes on you ...

Yet to live is the hardest part of life .....

With all your acquaintances betraying you ......

And you still want to live ..

To live .... is the greatest part of all emotions......

Because a bad phase in life is still a bad phase that you choose to handle it alone .....

Is that what grieving is ?????

You crying to yourself ????

If you think thats what grieving is all about ......

My friend ...... its not that .....

Survive beyond your will......

However hard it may be .......

Because you survived this long .......

Shouldn’t you throw everyone...

Who doesnt care and move on .....

Grieving is all about who is there ...

Beyond grave ......

Beyond everything.....

Just follow the music ....

Of life ...... 

and you are fine .....

Sussh