Sunday, December 15, 2019

I have been fatshamed

She: Just a little bit around your hip darling!

Me: okie mom!

Him: oh! Your chubby cheeks! Turns me on!

Me: okie honey!

Someone: come on! You wouldn't look good thinner!

Me: okie!

Again someone: Nah! You look good fat and chubby!

Me: Again okie!

Inside me: No. No. No. And NO (all in caps)

No beautiful isn't how she looks

It isn't in how you feel she looks

And NO not how you think she would look like!

Let her be whoever she is !

Every girl has been body shamed!

Awfully body shamed.

Because i thought fat shaming was the only thing throughout my life, until i met a girl who said "God! I wish i had your body"

When i have been shamed and down digged of my body my whole life.

Made me feel, what did she go through?!

What could have she gone through to have said she wanted someone else's body?!

She wants her soul! She wants her mind! She is proud of her attitude! She would want to destroy you to ashes! But she wants to do it in another body!

Because the world around her made her feel insufficient!

Insufficient that she thought you were actually by her side!

While all you could do is call her body as her BODY!

All the while you could have seen her for her achievements!

Her intellectual!

Her crown!

But Noo!

You did more than that!

you saw her as a tiny little defect!

Something to correct on her!

But its okie honey! She grows out of it too soon for your maturity to outgrow them!

She conquers!

~Sussh!


Wednesday, December 11, 2019

Oh boy! Should you put more effort!

Walking along the road with houses dressed in tinkling lights! Green! Red! And oh! Ho! White and blue!!

People climb roofs in this snow filled nights, just so they let Santa know they are ready! 
So ready and awaiting!

Its not about a religion or the region!
Its about the celebration in a long waited year! 

People work hard through the year for this one holiday! And get rewarded much nicely! 
They make people cross their house with a smile! They shed light to the starless night! 
What more? Oh and the pictures! So beautiful pictures of all the lights! 

Being happy is a choice! Making an effort is the only way around it!
Make tiny little effort! 
Open the door and let them smile at you!
Wink at the baby, and listen to an adorable giggle!
Give up your seat for the gentleman, hear him praise you “you are a lot younger than you think, Darling!”
Tell them to have good night! And a great day!!! 
Seeing someone smile for you 
And listening to someone “thank you” for such a minuscule thing could brighten your day more than you think!!!!

Just like the Christmas lights, the trees, the decorations!!!!! Its a choice! Make little effort for that beautiful choice!!!! You can never go wrong when it comes to choosing happiness over every other miracles! 

Be part of a smile in someone’s day!
Let the celebration begin with you, coming year!!!!
~Sussh